Is this a pathetic set-up or a Wolf in Sheep’s clothing?
People back in Toronto are slowly starting to find out that I’m returning with my little guy, so its not surprising that I’m getting emails from friends telling me they cant wait to see us. Making plans to hang out, catch up and see just how much my little guy has grown. and one even asked me for a roll in the hay?? Really dude?
A few days ago via facebook, a friend of my ex-husband and I started to chit chatting about my return. Nothing major just about how good it will be to be back ‘home’ etc. I didnt think anything of it as he has always been a nice and respectful guy all the years that we have all known each other. He is aware of my separation with my ex, but we dont really talk about it. After many friendly private messages exchanged between us, I found the conversation was taking a weird turn.. then bam.. like a slimy, sleuth ninja this guy starts asking me about my favorite sex positions and how he would love to… well, you get the picture.
WTF!! At first I thought, “Ok, this guy just accidentally sent me this message that was intended for someone else” because I know this fool isnt talking to ME like this!|!! So I sent back a nervous LOL followed by a few HAHAs as I still wasnt sure if that message was intended for me…but then it started to dawn on me.. “Shit, he’s a good friend of my ex.. Is this a set up?” or “Is he that much of an asshole that he has to hit on his friends exwife? I just cant believe I have to deal with this sort of crap.
How about a little respect? I’m your friends ex, I spent 10 years with him, I’m the mother oh his son. Wow dude, simply pathetic. I haven’t spoken to this idiot since, and I don’t plan to.
I promised myself that I will not put myself in stupid situation like this and I wont. . This is something that wouldn’t even phase my ex, he doesn’t give a crap one way or the other, but I do. Whatever game this so called friend is playing, its pathetic and immature. If he turns out to be a back stabbing scum, then he is my ex’s problem and not mine.
I realize that not ALL men are like this, but this sure makes it real hard not to be disgusted in them. Sad that yet ANOTHER person I thought was somewhat of a ‘friend’ is actually a snake.